The moment she walked in to my room, I sensed something else was with her. I took a cursory glance at her and saw a dark shadow, looked like a toddler or baby clinging to her right calf as she walked.
My thoughts in the day were taken up with exercise, and walking as many steps as I could. I had a fitbit and the fit bit scales, and I was constantly thinking about food, exercise and how to reduce my weight.
I can’t exactly pinpoint the actual day when I got fed up. I just remember there was a fire that lit up in me one day that told me to turn down the volume on my spirit because the turn up wasn’t working for me anymore.
6. If you hear something and you know that it’s not right (eg. noises in an empty office where there’s no one but you), don’t call out or ask aloud who’s there. It is said that the spirits might just be playing and by calling out, you are acknowledging their existence and they would be more than happy to continue disturbing you.
The objective of narcissistic abuse is power. They act with the intent to diminish or even hurt other people. The most important thing to remember about intentional abuse is that it’s designed to dominate you.
But in case you hadn’t noticed, it doesn’t replace nor compensate the fact that working arrangements in Malaysia are still unbelievably old-schooled and rigid. Having a cool space to work with a lot of facilities is great, it makes the office space somewhere that can help one find creative inspiration, but ultimately, what we really want is flexibility.
Seeing friends who value working, who enjoy new interests and challenges, setting themselves testing new projects can sometimes cause resentment, envy, jealousy and even prompt sarcastic comments regarding how much they do.